Tbh I hate having this weird sort of internalized shame about saying I want to get fucked and I don’t want to blame the entire queer male community for it but at times there definitely is a sort of stigma that comes with bottoming and I hate that because even though I…
Yea - just what the fuck.
I love all the Growlr, Scruff, Bear411, and Grindr apps going around because I grew up in BFE Illinois and just having some people to chat with my age and older was so incredibly helpful and kind. I will never forget all the awesome folks I met who helped me come out to myself and then all the other important people in my life. I was sort of late bloomer to the gay party… ;)
But what I HATE are the people on the apps or who use the apps to just be cruel and all sorts of sex-shamey towards other people who aren’t “into” what they like, and then have the nerve to message you informing you of their sex-shamey-stance. I usually don’t rage at them, but maybe I should. So for the record I decided to record my sexual stance in the form of a haiku:
I am a bottom
Except when I am a top
The moment will tell